Tuesday, October 26, 2010

deffrences betwen girls and boys

                 
               In my Polish culture boys, and girls are treated differently. When parents find out they will have baby girl or baby boy they will decorate their room in a different way regarding to the gender. As girls and boys growing up, more differences can be found: the girls will play with dolls, play houses, princesses, peak gentle and kind, and act feminine. The boys, on the other hand, will play with cars, have rough pretended play, and act more masculine.
                   In my country, Poland, boys and girls are playing together. However, sometimes boys will play with girls that sport like soccer. I remember to be part of that mixed soccer team. But mostly boys liked to compete with one another for leadership, the same as in the United States.
      Girls in Poland, in contrast to girls in the United States, like to play in larger groups. Interestingly enough they like to differentiate themselves as individuals by looking different. They like to have their own style of wearing clothes. For   example through individual style of clothing, and they do not like to copy their friends. In the same way may be interested by playing fairly and taking turns. In my country we can easely recognize girls or boys, through the spoken language, which differentiate masculine and feminine gender through the conjugation of nouns. The feminine ending in Poland is –la, for masculine is –il. In similarities, in the United States girls like to talk with each other a lot about other people and their lives.
       The most obvious in Polish culture between genders is fact that girls are treated by their parents more gently; when they fall we ask them how they feel, is everything all right. On the other hand, in the same situation with a boy, we would say: he will be fine. Since the beginning of our parenting we differentiate between girls and boys through their play with different toys, wearing different clothes that
distinguishes gender not only through color bout also, stale ,for example pants versus skirts or dresses; sports they are playing, and later on in life though the choice of work they are going to choose.
        Summarizing, the differences, between girls and boys are part of growing up in any culture not only in the United States. What is most important is the fact that this gender stereotype in somehow controlled and influenced by the society, culture and religion we are living in. If we got to learn and understand them we will be able to communicate better with each other

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